The board room has an attorney, a facility manager, an office systems business owner, a banker, a pharmacist, a trucker, a retiree and me. They are brilliant leaders in our community and they are in the dark when it comes to digital media. I love serving on this board and I love that my background is so diverse from theirs – that I am younger than them, and that I am the “girl” in the room. One thing that sometimes tickles me is that my ideas are often times completely foreign and outlandish to them, not because I am trying to be different but because my lens is just different. It sometimes leads to some ridicule and comments like, “Yeah, hey Randy – go ahead and twit that out would you?”
Continue reading “All Men: When to Challenge”
Martha Jane Cannary, known by most as Calamity Jane, is a woman who knew what she wanted, went to get it, and never looked back. In my research of Calamity Jane is she is one of those people who wrote her own story. In fact, today, we still don’t know how much of her story – the one she penned and we read – is considered to be is true and how much is complete fabrication. She is known as quite the spinner of tales. The fact that fascinates me about this is that Calamity Jane decided she wanted to be a legend, so she lived and dreamed a legendary life worth us remembering.
Do you have any friends like Calamity Jane? Do you have people in your life who encourage you to simply – be legendary? Do they challenge you to take risks, fall in love, chase the dream, ask for more money, or stand up for what you believe to be right? Continue reading “Become A Legend, Like Calamity Jane”
While in college I attended a Presbyterian Church and later was asked to serve part time as their youth director. Growing the youth program over the years, the part time job eventually led to a full time position. [Two steps forward] After seven total years working at the church, it was time to move on and I needed to interview for a new job. The church had changed pastors and my youth program was not on her agenda. #ChurchLife
So I began interviewing for jobs, reading all of the Interviewing for Dummies types of books, and practicing my interview skills. I had researched the best questions to ask as a candidate that would demonstrate my thoughtfulness and desire to have the job. I was polished at answering all the, “Would you rather work by yourself or as a team member,” or the “What would you say is your greatest strength and weakness” type of questions. I would say I kind of became an expert interviewee. Unfortunately I was also interviewing for a few jobs I had no desire to have [One step backwards] for the sake of experience.
Over the years, I started getting the jobs I wanted, climbing the proverbial ladder and honing my ability to prove I deserved the next job, the better pay, or the promotion. I continued researching the best ways to GET the job I wanted. Then I bought my own business and now I needed to interview to find the perfect employee. And what seemed like, suddenly, I now had to evaluate the talent from the other side of the desk. Now I had to decide if the candidate was being honest, if they could work both alone and as part of a team. To be honest, at first I hated being the lead in the interview dance.
Continue reading “The Interview Dance”
“I do not think there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance. It overcomes almost everything, even nature.” – John D. Rockefeller
Perseverance is vital to long-term success. As the richest man of his time, John D. Rockefeller knew that nothing of importance is built without much hard work. To do so, the work and focus must be intentional and consistent – no matter the task.
In each of us is the potential to be successful, and with focus, a specific mindset, and a vision of your goal to become truly unstoppable you can tap into it.
Continue reading “Be You, Do Right, Keep Moving”
The year is 1995, and I, Rachael Row, enter the WMU dorms on the campus of Oklahoma Baptist University to begin the pursuit of purpose. I am a stranger on this campus, unfamiliar with the town or the school, but ready to figure out what I want to be when I grow up.
Fast forward four years through the track and field career and a Health and Physical Education & Recreation degree, and the entrepreneurial journey begins. A few career changes, some life experience, and a network of professionals from around the world, and believe it or nor, I am on purpose more than ever!
Because I know who I am and exactly what I am supposed to be doing with my life, I will walk back onto the Oklahoma Baptist University campus, this time as a mentor. I am going to share my understanding of my purpose and my personal brand to young women who are finishing the final leg of their college journey.
Tomorrow night I will use and share my gifts and talents. I have been asked to, not only be a mentor for this year, but also to speak at the inaugural kick off dinner of Lydia’s Lamp Mentorship program for young women on campus. I am very honored to be a leader in the program, which has been titled in honor of Lydia, the influential and successful businesswoman mentioned only two times in the Bible.
Continue reading “Mentorship is My Purpose”
In response to my last blog post, a woman encouraged me to continue this message of unapologetic success and shared her experiences of battling against media and society along her professional journey. Additionally, I was encouraged by the number of responses and comments I received through social media platforms. For that – I thank you. Your comments and feedback remind me this message is greater than me, and it is needed. So we will take this taboo subject and make it streamline – together!
My personal tagline is “I don’t apologize for success or failure,” this is an intentional statement, and I mean it! More importantly I want you to adopt the tagline in your life. It may seem radical for me, a believer, to tout a refusal to apologize. This is not a rude, snotty statement, but a radically honest and pointed attitude I am hoping more women will adopt. While there are many reasons for this personal statement, a video I recently watched reminded me of the biggest reason of all…. it isn’t just about me.
Continue reading “It Can’t Be Just About You”
Sometimes my thoughts come out in Beyonce’s songs and I am not sure how that happens. Most recently, her song Flawless, brashly and aggressively paints the picture of our twisted support of successful women. Here are a few of the lyrics that were PG enough for me to post.
We teach girls to shrink themselves
To make themselves smaller
We say to girls
“You can have ambition
But not too much
You should aim to be successful
But not too successful
Otherwise you will threaten the man”
Continue reading “Beyonce’ Sings My Thoughts”